You like people..People like you..
And every things flows the way it should be..
Then people come close..
More close..
Even closer..
Till the extent they extent they become suffocating...
Dude...
Give some space...
Give people some time to break ice themselves..
Too much too soon doesnt work all the time...
I guess it never does..
Atleast not with me..
Read the body language..
Read the subtle hints..
Read the obvious hints...
Read the dotted line...
Listen for the sarcasm..
Dont make people disgusted all together next time they see you..
What could be the dawn of an awesome relation, becomes hatred..
Its all give and take..
Give time..
Take time...
And if it doesnt seem to work, dont try too hard..
LEAVE...
LEAVE for the time being if not for ever atleast...
Sometimes, rather most of the times, we think about other's reaction from our perspective..
Everything seems right in our head..
Result??
Hatred, annoyance, back biting etc etc etc...
As I said, from our perspective, everything seems rosy..
Lets test it..
Lets keep distance..
From a few...
For a few..
See the reactions...
Trust me, the experiment will really tell you whom to fall back on and whom to just say "hi" and move on...
All said and done, let me think for a moment if I also do the same??? ;) ;)
For that matter, even I mail, call, sms people and expect them to be in the same frame of mind and respond in a similar tone...
One page mail in reply for a page mail...
And what happens when I get a one liner??
Or do not get anything at all !!!!
I think..
I curse...
I crib...
What happens to the logical thinking, I just blabbered above??
Naah..
All null and void..
You gotta crib when you gotta crib... :)
I might be igniting some "smothering love" feelings in some other part of the world...
Shit..
How can I be sensible and asshole at the same time???
Hmmmm...
Let me give some more space to whom I love...
Doesnt matter if theres already too much in between...
After all..
Reading something similar and going into retrospection mode would be the last thing I would ask for...
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ReplyDeleteThats the best part man... who knows what you expect and you crib when people expect the same from you.. after all human emotional frame takes itself in the center, and assumes a world of emotions around it.. and so Bhatti bhai.. people cross your bubble, which you never want them to cross... because they want you to enter into their bubble...i wish we all know when, what and whom to speak... but Alas!! this will remain the mystery until eternity.. ;)
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